Sep 30 13

Abbotsford, Canada

by Emily Benjamin

Jamie (Brit) met Jo (Aussie) and Trev (Canadian) in Japan (!) about seven years ago, where they were all teaching English together. Jo & Trev were kind enough to invite us to celebrate their second wedding in Abbotsford in June this year, having already been legally married in Australia a year or so before. This Canadian wedding was a chance for Trevor’s extended family to celebrate with the couple, along with all the international friends the couple had made over the years. After a short ceremony with rings and vows, we all gathered for a delicious feast, some fabulous speeches then an epic dance party! While there, Jamie and I stayed in this absolutely beautiful bed & breakfast and were totally looked after by the doting hosts Leslie & Ramsey. Before heading back to San Francisco, we stopped by Golden Ears Provincial Park en route to Vancouver to enjoy the perfect summer weather. Overall, it was such a relaxing and fun-filled four day weekend with friends!Montage1 Montage2 Montage3 Montage4 Montage5

Filed Under → Travel
Mar 9 11


by Emily Benjamin

Before anyone gets any ideas, this was NOT our plan. It was an honest mistake, assuming that we were honeymooners. Maybe we should have corrected them sooner, but it all got too complicated.

Jamie did all the organising and booking of Halong Bay for my birthday, and as the staff of our hotel rushed to get us onto a good boat, they got the details a bit wrong. The switched the word ‘birthday’ for ‘honeymoon’ and before Jamie could correct them, the phone had been hung up and we were given our tickets and transport details. Maybe he was too polite, or we can blame the language differences, but we figured it was a small mistake and nothing would come from it.

The next day though, we were collected by our helpful guide Kiew and taken to Halong Bay, to board the beautiful Phoenix Cruiser with 18 others for a couple of nights on the water. And all of a sudden, we were being welcomed onto the boat as the celebrated newlyweds. Jamie had warned me in advance of the phone call and although we hoped it wouldn’t come up again, we decided to just make sure our facts were straight. We decided just to keep our mouths shut, smile and nod.

Everything was going smoothly until Kiew came over to the table where we were having a drink with another couple. In his broken english, he offered us his congratulations and let us know he was very happy for us. As he walked away, the other couple looked confused and so we decided to let them in on the secret. They thought it was hysterical!

We thought we were through the worst of it but then, for dessert, they dimmed the lights and presented us with a cake, complete with ‘Honeymoon’ decorated into the icing. There was applause, some laughter (from the couple that knew, plus a few others that had caught on to the charade) and so we got up, made a show of cutting the cake together, and then hid our laughter as best as we could.

You would think the lesson in this is clear – to tell the truth otherwise you’ll be caught in a lie for almost three days. But the other lesson is this – fake honeymoons get you cake and freebies!

— Em 🙂

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